CalGary your Essay was wonderfully writin... From the heart story it helped me a lot! I just went through the same thing I just lost a very very dear friend of mine and the way you put it I feel better knowning I shouln't think about us being apart but think about what we learned from eachother and how we grew up together and molded right in front of eachother Thank you for writing your heart out to anyone who would read It really helped me see and opened my eyes. Thank you AmberEve